Harnessing the Power of Desire: Nurturing the Flame Within

In this article we delve into the depths of our desires; their origins, and their potential to transform our lives.  We look at how to tap into our desires and cultivate the art of turning our dreams into reality.

We all have desires; things we long to be, do and have. Often, we can find ourselves caught up with just settling for what we think we need, rather than allowing ourselves to connect with the dreams and desires of our heart, those things which truly light us up. 

Understanding the Essence of Desire

Desire is the essence of the Life in each of us. It surpasses mere wants and needs; our desires are the effort of the unexpressed possibilities within us, seeking expression with and through us. Our desires are our guiding light, a fire that is indeed the light of our soul. It has been said ‘we do not breathe; we are being breathed’. As long as we have air in our lungs, we have desires in our hearts.

In ancient languages, the term "want" conveys a sense of lack. To say I ‘want’ something, is indeed a proclamation that I do not have that thing.  ‘Desire’ carries the weight of something greater, something looking to be expressed by the very essence of Life within us. The power of desire is in its ability to move us beyond the boundaries of mere existence; it urges us forward, towards a life infused with purpose and meaning.

Transforming Negatives into Positives: The Role of Opposition

Paradoxically, becoming aware of things that don’t light us up, often leads us to uncovering our truest desires. Our aversions and dislikes illuminate the path towards our passions and longings. Identifying what repels us, we open the door to understanding what truly resonates with the essence of who we are. By acknowledging our dislikes, we have the opportunity to create space for cultivating our desires and shaping our aspirations.

The Source of Desire: A Journey Within

Desire doesn't emerge from fleeting whims; it arises from the depth of our being. Our desires are not merely born of external influences or learnt skills, but are rooted in the intricate threads of our uniqueness. When we connect with our desires, we tap into our Life source and an energy that raises us up to be more, do more and create more.

The Creative Power of Unexpressed Possibility

Desire is not passive, nor will it be silenced; it's the ever-present urging behind the unexpressed possibilities within us. Like a seed yearning to grow, desire is our uniqueness looking for expression. It propels us forward and upwards, always to greater heights and fuller expression. You can be absolutely sure that if you truly desire to be or do or have something, it is looking to be expressed with and through you too! 

Tapping into the Flame of Desire

Connecting with our desires requires conscious awareness. That’s it.

 Here's an exercise to help you tap into your desires:

1. Keep a notebook with you throughout the week.
2. Observe and jot down things you like or dislike, experiences that light you up, and moments that bring you joy.
3. Take note of your preferences, whether they're related to surroundings, interactions, or experiences.

By consciously engaging in this way, you are turning up the light of your awareness and aligning yourself with your desires, opening yourself up to the things that resonate with your soul.

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